Go from shame and blame to peace of mind and a confident heart!
Shirley Jones
Conscious Uncoupling Coach and Guide
Hi, I'm Shirley,
I work with clients who are separated, divorced and or estranged from others. I help them go from shame and blame to peace of mind and a confident heart.
A five-step process to rapidly achieve the personal freedom you desire in your life. Using the tools of transformative coaching programs I use a system that generates positive results for my clients. Taking them from heartbreak and despair to peace of mind.
Shirley Guidance System offers a way forward from the heartbreak of separation into finding peace in all aspects of your life.
My Programs
Conscious Uncoupling
Are you experiencing the pain of family rupture? Conscious Uncoupling is a five step process that transforms that pain of into peace of mind and personal freedom.
If you are wading in shame and blame and want to do the work, then you can achieve emotional liberty. Working with the Conscious Uncoupling program will help you move through the complex emotions experienced during relationship breakdown.
Calling in the One
Are you experiencing the pain of loneliness?
Do you want to attract love in your life?
Calling in the One is designed to call in the love you deserve in your life. The focus is on discovering the patterns that have been holding you back and transforming them into wholesome, new interactions.
Dream Builder Coaching
A transformative program which offers you the possibility of realizing your vision and dream for your life. Group coaching is a possibility.
Life Mastery Program
When you want to transform your life into a life you love living in all aspects: health, wealth, relationships and time and money freedom. Group coaching is possible.
Testimonials
Mary Jeptoo Uwingabire
I have never met such a beautiful woman,with a BIG Heart,a great leader,very authentic and very inspiring as Shirley Jones may God bless you every day your life and keep doing great things in making this world a better place in the world. Kindly receive much love and greetings from us all at Big Dreams for Africa.
Yeshim Reitmayer
I have had the pleasure of experiencing Shirley’s facilitation skills on several occasions as part of Ruhi Book 1, 2, and 3 study circles. With her sense of humour, sensitivity, and inclusive style, she found ways to engage a group of individuals from varied backgrounds and differing levels of knowledge in the material being studied.
She enhanced the capacity of each group member by looking at their role in the collective and encouraging and empowering them to learn from each other through reflection, cooperation, and respect. She was also very tactful and efficient in bringing the discussions to a close, changing the topics, preventing one person from dominating the conversation, and creating room for those who were hesitant to join.
I greatly enjoyed the sessions offered by Shirley, and I recommend her for the design and delivery of any course or workshop.
Alice G.
Shirley has the capacity to be deeply empathetic, listening with her heart and able to discern the crucial issues, even when left unsaid. She has a deeply felt desire to help others, and speaks from experience when she offers insight into how to find solutions to life's problems.
I greatly valued Shirley's unwavering respect for my individuality, values, and life experiences. She plants seeds. She understands the necessity of letting me grow as I need to, of doing my own inner work, and staying in control of the healing process. I take my power back when I do this. However, she also has a terrific bank of strategies to overcome mental blocks, nudging when it is needed.I am very grateful to have had a chance to work with Shirley. I consider her a special friend.
Rose-Marie C.
I had the pleasure of working under the guidance of Shirley Jones as my coach for “Calling in the One, and Conscious Uncoupling”. Shirley is a warm, loving person who puts her heart, life skills and knowledge in her work. I found her to be a great listener, very empathetic and very resourceful.
This gave me the tools to become more focused on clear objectives, becoming better at communicating (including my boundaries), and being open to meeting a potential life partner that is at my level. I am thankful for this knowledge and wish Shirley much success!!!
Rose-Marie C.
J’ai eu le plaisir de travailler sous la guidance et conseil de Shirley Jones pour l'atelier/cours ``Calling in the One, Conscious Uncoupling”. Shirley est une dame avec un grand Cœur, empathie, et beaucoup d'expérience de vie. Comme “coach” ce fut très agréable de travailler ensemble et cela m’a donné des nouveaux outils.
Je suis plus consciente de mes objectifs, je détiens une meilleure communication interpersonnelle et je suis réceptive à rencontrer un partenaire de “vie” qui est à mon niveau! Je suis très reconnaissante d’avoir travaillé près de Shirley et je la recommande comme coach.
Vanessa T-R
I was coached by Shirley through the seven-week program Calling in the One. I didn't believe that a Caucasian woman could help me with the issue of finding love in my life. I am a Woman of Color and very private. What I discovered was a hidden treasure within.
With Shirley's assistance I was able to go through what has turned out to be a life transforming process. She guided me skillfully to my inner depths and helped me find true love. She was determined, confident and sensitive to my needs. I highly recommend Shirley's services.
Kathleen Jones
I have known and worked with Shirley now over a number of years. My life was full of sadness, self hatred and addiction. Having her walk beside me as I have navigated these painful aspects of my life, I have been able to heal and grow and learn to love myself.
Shirley is a wise, kind woman. Through her extensive knowledge and lived experience, she has helped me to navigate difficult relationships and learn a new way of being in this world. Her honest feedback, compassionate views and non-judgement have helped me to be a stronger, wiser and more compassionate woman.
With her help, I have a new life of peace and self love and a new way of being. I have been very lucky to have her in my life and I highly recommend her as a teacher and coach.
About Shirley
I am so happy that you are reading this! Thank you.
I have walked the path of lack, self-hatred, estrangement, and divorce in order to come out the other side with a clear purpose to bring people into a state of inner and outer unity. My focus is on healing the trauma of relationship rupture .
I was married for 36 years and had five children. Since my divorce there has been estrangement with my children. The pain of isolation and separation actually galvanized me to find meaning, putting into practice a healing process of reconnection to myself, mindfully nurturing my body, learning to tap into my senses and become consciously attuned to bodily sensations.
As a transformational coach, I partner with my clients and support them through significant change. That is my first commitment to them.
Together we will identify and clear real or imagined blocks which may be getting in the way. Using the senses; hearing, smelling, touching, tasting, seeing, and the kinesthetic sense of knowing in your body.
As you gain self-awareness and develop the ability to intuitively know how you are feeling allows you to become present to whatever is going on in your bodyThe work is focused on creating shifts in your being.
It’s the work at this deeper level that creates lasting change. Your actions will then follow and align with your new state of being- by bringing Love into all aspects of your life.
My approach is nonjudgmental, professional, and down-to-earth style that is layered with warmth, respect, and compassion.
I am a member of the Baha'i Faith, which informs my spiritual approach, and am bilingual in English and French. It is best to book a Discovery Session with me in order to see how I can best help you.
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